Don't Put Her On Hold, She Is NOT a Phone Call!!

(Previously Written)     

*PULLS OUT SOAP BOX AND CLEARS THROAT*

     QUERY:  Why do some guys think they can put girls on hold?  Confused?  

     

     Example:

                    Guy:  Just don't be done with me!

                    Girl:  Ummm, you disappeared from my life for months and months and then you tell me that you have a girlfriend!

                    Guy:  Yeah, so?  Just don't be done with me!

                    Girl:  How many times have you walked away and been done with me over the years?  And besides I don't mess with a guy who has a girl.

                    Guy:  Yeah, but things are kind of up in the air, so...

                    Girl:  WHAT?!?!

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     So many guys treat girls like they are a Kmart and they can put their love and affection on layaway and pay a little ever so often so it won't be returned to the shelf!  That is not love or respect, h*ll it isn't even fair!  How can (some) guys do this and sleep at night?!?  If a girl did that to a guy he would feel cheap, unloved and disrespected.  No one wants to be treated as a consolation prize.  Great girls are worth more than that!!  Girls who give of themselves (without being asked) give of their love, support, fidelity, time and wisdom.  Girls who are honest, caring, kind, generous, thoughtful and forgiving are rare; they are priceless and when they get tired of being on layaway they will be returned to the shelf.  And someone else will see their value and happily choose them without hesitation!  

     I wonder if these guys will finally wake up when they lose a treasure completely to someone wiser and bolder than they?  I mean these guys have proven again and again that they do not know the worth of good girls.  They treat them like a net they can fall into instead of wings that help them fly.  I wonder if they realize that these girls aren't going to give up a life of happiness and love with someone who treats her like she is the moon in his night sky for someone who never will see her that way(nor treat her that way).    

     Every guy is given the opportunity to show a girl what he is made of, but if he proves time and time again to be left wanting then he proves that he is not worth the gamble.  Guys who put girls on hold are insecure, selfish and cruel.  It is sad to know that there are guys who do this consciously and see nothing wrong with it, either!  So sad!  GROW UP and you may want to MAN UP,  too while you are at it! 

 *REPLACES SOAP BOX IN CORNER*

     Just a little venting and some food for thought.  Ladies don't let a man treat you like a Kmart and gents--don't be that douche, oops I mean dude!  Until another time I wish you all love and happiness of the truest kind!

          ~Marissa