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Question: How (if ever the decision is made to) does one talk to a friend about their (God awful) significant other--who is (at best) the pebble in the (collective group of friends') proverbial shoes? I mean (with absolutely no sarcasm or embellishment) when the other person is so awful that everyone dreads their presence because they know that they will be faced with a disrespectful and malicious terror, should something not be done? And what's worse is when this Terror isn't just awful to their significant other, but to the collective group as well.
There is never a situation where the Terror doesn't leave half of the people with a bad taste in their mouth and the rest running for the exits (ok, that was a little facetious)! How does one address this? Is the (much more than possible) fall out worth it? I mean seeing a friend go through so much with the Terror one can't help feeling bad for them, yet how much must the collective endure as they try to support the friend (through such a tragic relationship)? The collective desires the happiness of their friend, to see them with someone wonderful, but when the friend connects themselves with a Terror the lines start to mingle where friendly advice ends and obnoxious opinions begin...
What a conundrum to be caught in! What should the collective do, if anything at all? Oh well, more to ponder--hopefully an answer will come! Until another time I wish you all Love and Happiness of the Truest kind!
~M
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