If you think this post is about all my "dirty" little bedroom secrets, well slow your roll because it is NOT! What this post is about is quite simply--communication! We have blogged about communication in regards to many different facets in a relationship, but this is our first about communicating in regards to sex. There can be no trust or intimacy (either physical or emotional) in a relationship--in any facet--if there isn't communication. Well, how often do you remember to communicate with your partner in the bedroom?
The only way to enhance intimacy between you and your partner is to show that you are open, receptive and trustworthy. Nine times out of ten you probably get caught up in the emotions and the actions and before you know it--every thing is basically said and done. Well whether before, after (or depending on how things are, during) you should take time to communicate with your partner. If there is something that you really enjoy or really dislike, don't hesitate to let your partner know! Compliment and verbally appreciate the wonderful things they can do and that you do together, too. If you are feeling adventurous or curious about something talk with them about it--much more than likely your partner will be supportive and open and you two can venture into new territory together.
Remember intimacy is important on all levels and this little bit of advice may just lead you to a lot of fun! It may not be easy, if you aren't used to speaking to your partner about your physical intimacy, but we all must start somewhere. And I am sure the benefits will be worth the initial hesitancy (or embarrassment) that you may initially experience.
Remember communication is key to build a healthy and happy relationship--even when it comes to physical intimacy. What can it truly hurt to try? Until another time I wish you all Love and Happiness of the truest kind.
~Marissa
No comments:
Post a Comment